Category: healing

Prior to my recovery I was a major people pleaser.  I also had flexible morals based on how I felt at the moment.  I didn’t know how to stand for anything or to defend my position without getting angry. I would change colors depending on who I was around. I wanted to be liked by…

Why is it so hard to appreciate what I’ve been given? Why do I find it difficult to live in the moment?  How can I genuinely appreciate and be thankful for gifts or nice things that are done for me? It’s almost if I have this expectation that people will do things for me.   I…

Why is it that my brain can create entire scenarios with no resistance at all? When I was living in the addiction, I cherished the fantasy world in my mind. I would think about anything that promised instant gratification. What I didn’t realize at the time was that it wasn’t always sexual. Sometimes I imagined…

Following Discovery or disclosure these questions will surely be on your mind.  If you are anything like me, you have been living a life that has secrets buried underneath.  Have you been allowing lust to run rampant in every aspect of your life.? So how to you start to heal? Here is a list of…